High Conflict Divorce/Separations
How I Can Support Your Child
“The first and foremost instinct of humans is neither sex nor aggression. It is to seek contact and comforting connection.”
~ Sue Johnson, Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships

My Process with High Conflict
Every family is different. We all hope for the best when welcoming a child, yet sometimes things change.
Why choose Dr. Berman:
I am confident when it comes to working with High Conflict families. I know the Laws and Ethics of Minor’s consent, therapy, etc. like the back of my hand. I am very comfortable advocating for the well-being of the child. I take what parents/caregivers tell me with a grain of salt: the truthkeeper is the child.
When I work with High-Conflict, I want to be clear about how I support your child. I require all custody documents to be sent prior to the parent intake so that I can make sure of the legal aspects on my part.
I keep all things as equitable as possible. I will have an initial 15-20 minute consult with each parent separately. If we all decide to move forward with sessions, then I will schedule an intake session with each parent/guardian separately. This will allow me to understand each perspective of the situation while being able to focus on the welfare of your child. Once I meet with both parents, then I have my first session with the child.
Once I start sessions with your child, you can expect minimal contact from me in order to reinforce the confidentiality I have with your child. If possible, I will have parent check-ins every so often because, regardless, you probably see your child more than I do. This is family dependent.
My priority is supporting your child.
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Play Therapy
Play Therapy is the best way to help a child through their situation. What looks like simple play to an adult is a complicated neural process for children to help them make sense of a their world.
Individual Therapy
Whether you and your partner want to improve your communication, process through a difficult life event, or even preemptively work on your partnership, Emotionally Focused Therapy will help.

Play Therapy
Play Therapy
Play Therapy is the best way to help a child through their situation. What looks like simple play to an adult is a complicated neural process for children to help them make sense of a their world.

Individual Therapy
Individual Therapy
Whether you and your partner want to improve your communication, process through a difficult life event, or even preemptively work on your partnership, Emotionally Focused Therapy will help.